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Waiting

This purple orchid came home with me two years ago. Her bold beauty caught my eye at the hardware store one afternoon while my husband was off down the plumbing aisle buying some sort of gasket to fix some sort of leak. I held her in my lap on the drive home, protecting her two fragile blossoms.

The bathroom counter by the window seemed the best place for this stunning demonstration of God’s artistic cleverness. She liked it there and within two weeks a third bud joined the first two. For several months her purpleness made me smile whenever I caught a double reflection of her in the bathroom mirror. Those three orchid blooms were tenacious and always lovely.

Then one by one they went limp and fell off. All that remained was a dry, unattractive stem and several emerald leaves that felt rubbery. I don’t have much experience with orchids so I looked up about how often to feed them and what kind of conditions they like. I followed the instructions and waited.

Waiting is boring. It’s discouraging and worst of all it gives place to schemes.  When we see nothing happening we want to make something happen. That’s what Sarah did when she told Abraham to take Hagar and have a baby with her. She had reached the point where the possibility of new life being created inside of her seemed ridiculous. Impossible. Laughable.

And yet Sarah did become pregnant. She did have a son just as God had promised. And she named him Isaac, which means “laughter”.

As I watched my orchid do nothing for months and months I wanted to move it to a different location or feed it more fertilizer. I wanted to do something to make it bust out three more purple flowers. I wanted to see the beauty again and not just the unattractive stick of a stem with the gangly roots sticking out like the flailing arms of a cartoon space creature.

But I had no power to make it do what I wanted it to do. All I could do was wait.

Then one day a bud appeared. And another. And another. Hints of purple began to show and more buds kept forming. The orchid exploded with not three flowers as it had before. This time it sprouted six flowers. Six! Double the bounty. Double the beauty. Double the joy it gives me whenever I see it.

This morning I was gazing at the full bloom orchid as I was having my quiet time on the lanai. The word “wait” seemed to whisper over me. Wait. Wait.

I am waiting for several things in my life to bust out and start blooming. I have been waiting for quite some time for one particular dream to show signs of purpleness but it continues to appear about as dead and dull as a dormant orchid stem.

How about you? Can you relate? Are you waiting?

Boring, isn’t it? Discouraging. Your mind keeps coming up with crazy schemes.  Your dream seems laughable.  That’s okay. You and I are in good company with Sarah and with the orchid from the hardware store. We are held by the One who put these dreams in our hearts. All we can do is wait. He infuses that which appears hopeless with life-giving, resurrection power. He brings the beauty in His time.

And He does it abundantly! Not three orchid blooms this year . . . Six!

Wait. Believe. Trust. Hope. Wait.

 

  • Jen

    Thanks Robin, I needed to hear this. Dios te bendiga.

    • http://RobinGunn.com/ Robin Jones Gunn

      God bless you, too, Jen!

  • Karelien

    Thank you so much, this is encouraging!! I’ll keep waiting and praying and God will fulfill it for me!

    • http://RobinGunn.com/ Robin Jones Gunn

      Yes! Keep waiting and praying!

  • http://www.facebook.com/honduranvoice Jennifer Layman Rivera

    We constantly need this reminder, Robin. I am sure you know at least one of my dreams. My desire to touch others and witness to them through written word. Not everyone around me is so supportive of my writing. I have prayed about it, and although I am not expecting my works to become top-rated, bestsellers, I do hope and dream that they will shine God’s light on those who are in the darkness. Grander than that, I would love to see them in action on the screen one day. That is a dream that I have had ever since my mind will allow me to recollect. Prayer and patience are good. Great. Something we must commit to every day. However, we need to understand that sometimes the answer may not be what WE want, but what GOD knows is best, according to His will. Blessings to you, and may your dreams soar.

    • http://RobinGunn.com/ Robin Jones Gunn

      The best part, Jennifer, is that God knows your dreams. He is working behind the scenes. Keep trusting Him!

  • Monica

    Thank you for this reading this morning. It seems like waiting has been a theme for my family too. While I’m Waiting from Josh Wilson used to dome on the Christian radio station at just the right random times and I’d think, there’s my theme song :) . We are waiting to find out if our house sale will go through to buyers with a government loan so we can move for my husband’s job next week. Almost 2 months after the sale of the house and they still do not know for sure. Movers had to be lined up and our closing is scheduled so we wait and pray all will work out. If not, I pray God gives us the grace to deal with that. Wait and trust is what I know we have to do but it is so very hard. Your post was timely and encouraging. Thank you again!

    • http://RobinGunn.com/ Robin Jones Gunn

      While I’m Waiting is a good theme song for many of us, isn’t it? Keep trusting God!

  • The Frenzied Fox

    I love this thanks so much :)

    • http://RobinGunn.com/ Robin Jones Gunn

      :-)

  • Verdesage

    That really blessed me and was just what I needed today! Thank you!

    • http://RobinGunn.com/ Robin Jones Gunn

      Yay!

  • Anna

    Thankyou so much for posting this update, at the moment I am waiting for God to provide the finances to be able to go to Nepal and Bangladesh for the months and a couple of weeks and me reading this was defiantly a God thing, it’s just what I needed to read as I wait and trust I The Lord expectant to see him come through as he always does!:)

    • http://RobinGunn.com/ Robin Jones Gunn

      He does always come through. Always! In His way and His time.

  • Anna

    *for three months in a couple of weeks

  • Jeffrey

    Thank you Mrs. Gunn! This was such an encouragement to read, and very much needed.

    • http://RobinGunn.com/ Robin Jones Gunn

      Oh, good. Be encouraged!

  • Barbara

    It is so true. Waiting is difficult. “Hear my prayer, O Lord, and let my cry come to You. Do not hide Your face from me in the day of my trouble; Incline Your ear to me; In the day that I call, answer me speedily.” Psalm 102:1-2

    • http://RobinGunn.com/ Robin Jones Gunn

      Excellent verse/prayer, Barbara. Thanks for posting it.

  • Jill Anderson

    Just the right thing on a cold morning with my cup of cocoa. We know that under the piles of new white snow there will be God’s spring with the blooms and the green grass……….we just have to Wait for His Time. Enjoy your bloom, we will get our chance soon.

    • http://RobinGunn.com/ Robin Jones Gunn

      Spring is coming!

  • Candy

    Wait……that’s the word that has been in my heart since last week. Since my husband went to heaven 3 years ago, I have been on that white page between the chapters of a book not knowing what my purpose is after being his wife for over 36 years. It’s a hard place to be, but I keep telling myself that God and I are going to get through this. I love flowers. So this story touched my heart. Thank you.

    • http://RobinGunn.com/ Robin Jones Gunn

      Oh, Candy. My heart goes out to you. May the Lord be especially close to you today. In His time he will turn to the next page and a new chapter WILL begin.

    • Trish

      Candy….I’m with you!! It’s been a year & a half for me. Yesterday would have been our 30th anniversary. Waiting is so hard!! Robin…..you have such a tender way with words!!! Love you girlfriend!!!

  • Peggy

    Loved this!

    • http://RobinGunn.com/ Robin Jones Gunn

      :-)

  • laura m.

    Thank you for sharing just what I needed to hear today! :D
    Blessings,
    Laura

    • http://RobinGunn.com/ Robin Jones Gunn

      Awesome. So glad to hear that.

  • Galilee

    Your beautiful orchid is the evidence of God’s amazing and more than abundant care – it encouraged my own heart at a time of waiting and being fearful. Thank you for being attentive to God’s whisper in your heart.

    • http://RobinGunn.com/ Robin Jones Gunn

      No fear! God’s perfect love casts out all fear. May He be especially near to you this new day, Galilee.

  • cafeldberg

    I loved it and I really needed it! Thanks! Thanks, Father!

    • http://RobinGunn.com/ Robin Jones Gunn

      Yes, thanks, Father, for your perfect timing and resurrection life giving power!

  • Holly

    That’s a good word! Thank you for sharing!!

    • http://RobinGunn.com/ Robin Jones Gunn

      :-)

  • Dr. Bles

    Thank you Robin, a very nice story! I can see you waiting, watching and having faith! We are missing your smiling face and waiting on your return to Vancouver, WA, if only for a visit ;-)

    • http://RobinGunn.com/ Robin Jones Gunn

      I miss you guys, too! Visiting your office was always a healing experience. :-)

  • Kristi

    I think you wrote this specifically for me today-thank you! I can also relate as I have about 6 orchids that came with me from South Florida to Chicago that used to live on my sunny, humid porch and haven’t bloomed in 3 years. God has certainly been teaching me about waiting.

    • http://RobinGunn.com/ Robin Jones Gunn

      And what stage our your 6 orchids at now, Kristi? Any evidence of purplesness yet?

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100005375016883 Jane Green

    The flower is beautiful! I have a dream that I have been working on for years. God is the only one that can bring it to fruition. I will wait.

    • http://RobinGunn.com/ Robin Jones Gunn

      It’s true. God IS the only one that can bring it to fruition.

  • Robyn

    Thank you for writing this. I am waiting for a sweet season of life to begin. I need to persevere and trust the Lord and be content with where I am at right now.

    • http://RobinGunn.com/ Robin Jones Gunn

      And may you persevere with peace, Robyn. Godliness with contentment is great gain. (I Timothy 6:6)

  • Regina

    Oh how this touches me, I who also love purple and am yearning for something so desired for the last two years that I can feel the power of it all the way down to my toes. May I share my story “Behind the Hand of God” with you and your readers at http://the-hand-of-god.com/its-not-gasits-god/. Part 1 is already there. Part 2 will post tonight at 7 p.m. EST

    • http://RobinGunn.com/ Robin Jones Gunn

      Thanks for posting this, Regina! I know how much this project has been on your heart. May the Lord bless the fruit of your hands!

  • Phyllis

    Thank you for that, it comes as an encouragement in a time of waiting. Purpleness to my soul : )

    • http://RobinGunn.com/ Robin Jones Gunn

      Hee hee! Love it! Purpleness to my soul. :-)

  • http://www.alinemgomes.com Aline M. Gomes

    Can I print this post and put up on my bedroom wall, Robin?

    Once again God is reminding me that I should stop with all my crazy plans B, C & D. His plan A is enough. I just need to wait…

    And yeah, I’m crying like a baby now.

    • http://RobinGunn.com/ Robin Jones Gunn

      Of course. No more crazy plans. Just trust in the One who put the dream in your heart. And wait on Him.

  • http://www.facebook.com/tina.gilbert.562 Tina Gilbert

    Gorgeous Flowers!!! GOD is so good, teaching us His heart-lessons through the nature He created. I love this story! And I love the reminder to wait. The Lord’s plan will come about in the Lord’s time. I need not worry nor fret. Only wait, and trust, and continue living for the glory of my King! Thank you for sharing this, Robin. <3

    • http://RobinGunn.com/ Robin Jones Gunn

      No worry – no fret – trust God – He’s not done with you yet. :-)

  • Georgia Perrong

    Thanks for the encouragement “Sisterchick”!!! I’m going out to buy an orchid!

    Blessings

    • http://RobinGunn.com/ Robin Jones Gunn

      God bless you, too Georgia. And happy orchid watching.

  • Diana

    Thank you. This is a great reminder for me. Many blessings to you Robin. Hugs from Oregon :)

    • http://RobinGunn.com/ Robin Jones Gunn

      Thanks for the hugs Diana. I send back hugs from Hawaii on a gentle trade wind.

  • Stef

    I just had a miscarriage and it was my first baby. I have been so sad, but this was a good reminder that it will all happen in God’s timing, and that I just need to wait on Him.

    • http://RobinGunn.com/ Robin Jones Gunn

      Oh, Stef. My heart goes out to you. So painful. Wait on the Lord. He is close to you right now.

      “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” Psalm 34:18

  • http://www.facebook.com/emilypage01 Emily Page

    Boy did I need to hear that this morning! Thank you for sharing that beautiful analogy. My husband and I have been in the process of trying to buy a home. For eight months we waited for the right one to come on the market, losing three in a bidding war to investors. We finally think we found the perfect one for us but the loan process has been very tedious. It has been two months since we started this process and there has been one road block after another. Now we continue to wait on things that are out of our hands to come through. There is absolutely nothing left for us to “do”. It’s the worst! You know how you said you sit and dream up ideas and ways to try make it work. That’s SO us! We have been praying for patience and that His will be done. We just have to keep waiting and if it is His will for us to live in this home, He will allow it work out. They that wait upon the Lord will renew their strength. Isiah 40:31

    • http://RobinGunn.com/ Robin Jones Gunn

      Love that verse! Yes, wait upon the Lord!

      • http://www.facebook.com/emilypage01 Emily Page

        By the way, update…
        We moved into the brand new home two weeks ago. Totally excited and overwhelmed with unpacking…but it’s all ours! At last the waiting paid off. :) How sweet it is when all the waiting comes to an end and pays off.

  • Betsy St. Amant

    I want to frame this. Thank you Robin. This is my heart’s cry. So grateful Jesus showed me this today. You’re an amazing vessel for His kingdom! I can’t wait to see you at ACFW in Sept :)

    • http://RobinGunn.com/ Robin Jones Gunn

      Can’t wait to see you, too, Betsy! Our little hearts will cry out to the Lord together.

  • http://www.facebook.com/megan.bender.92 Megan Bender

    my best friend of 19yrs and I just had a discussion about waiting. when I got this I instantly forwarded it to her. She’s been waiting on a man she is convinced God told her will be her husband. They dated previously and are really close friends right now. She told me how she’s beginning to feel foolish because its been over a yr. I told her I feel that her waiting is an ultimate love story.

    • http://RobinGunn.com/ Robin Jones Gunn

      So glad you could share this with her. We all need friends to come alongside and whisper truth to us.

  • Grace Lane

    That is the word I need to hold onto today. “Those that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength, they shall mount up on wings as eagles. they shall run and not be weary, they shall walk and not faint.” Thank you!
    Grace

    • http://RobinGunn.com/ Robin Jones Gunn

      Yes and amen! Love that verse, Grace. (Isaiah 40:31)

  • Lynette

    Thank you so much for that reminder… over the last few years there has been alot of struggles in my family… Durring 1 of my quiet times with God, last year. He reminded me that He says “Be Still and know I am God” I was getting so tired trying to do everything in my power to get everything back in line, at times I was to “busy” for God… As I sat there and looked at the beauty that God created all around me, I realized that it all takes time… and what God really wanted was for me to surrender to Him and to Be Still and know that He will take care of it all…Since doing that, things are coming back in line. And everytime that I start to get to “busy” I hear a queit voice in my head that says… “Be Still”…

    • http://RobinGunn.com/ Robin Jones Gunn

      Excellent reminder, Lynette. Yes. Be still. Wait. Trust. Those are so foreign to our nature and our everyday scrambled up lives.

  • http://www.facebook.com/katrina.sinift Katrina Sinift

    Wow. What a wonderful illustration. Thanks for sharing. This is just what I needed to hear today. I have been waiting for almost a year for God to open up the door for a new job for me. It seems like it’s getting closer but I still don’t know for sure or know what it’s going to be. I especially like your reminder that we need to not try to force anything during our seasons of waiting. I want what God has for me and not what I make for myself. Thanks again for your powerful words! :-)

    • http://RobinGunn.com/ Robin Jones Gunn

      Since you want what God wants, He will bring about His purpose in His time. He will!

  • http://www.facebook.com/sarah.peer.773 Sarah Peer

    Thank you for these words of encouragement! That’s EXACTLY where I am right now, waiting. Waiting to see if I can make it into school. Waiting for the love of my life to show up on the scene. Waiting, waiting, waiting. But remembering that God hasn’t forgotten and has a plan gives me new hope for the future! Thank you, and God bless!

    • http://RobinGunn.com/ Robin Jones Gunn

      God definitely has not forgotten, Sarah. He’s at work behind the scenes. You’ll see!

  • Anonymous

    Robin, thank you for this blog today. It’s just the boost of encouragement I needed. I’ve been praying and have my entire life group praying for a boyfriend for me. It seems impossible, laughable, and why would anyone want me? But I have a desire to get married someday, to marry a MOG. I’ve been so discouraged that it will never happen and have tried everything I can to try and meet people. Waiting is hard, but your blog encourages me that it’s worth it.

    • http://RobinGunn.com/ Robin Jones Gunn

      I’m so glad this was encouraging. Have you read “Praying for Your Future Husband”? My friend Tricia Goyer and I wrote this book specifically for women who are asking the same questions you are. I think you’ll like it.

      • Anonymous

        Oh yes! I’ve read it. It was a great book!

  • Rebekah

    Thank you Robin for sharing! God has used you yet again to speak His truth into my life at just the right time. Right now in my life I am waiting on God to bring a man into my life. One of my greatest desires in life is to be a wife and mother. That is all I have ever wanted to be. I am now in my early twenties and have never been asked out by a guy. Right now my prospects look pretty slim and, yes even laughable to some people that I could meet anyone anytime soon, but God can make the seemingly impossible possible! Thank you for the words Wait. Believe. Trust. Hope. Wait

    • http://RobinGunn.com/ Robin Jones Gunn

      I agree, Rebekah, God can make the seemingly impossible possible. Wait. Believe. Trust. Hope. Wait. :-)

  • Karen

    Thanks for the great reminder that life goes on no matter what. Living with the reality that no children will join my husband and me in our family hurts, but looking over the last little bit has shown me the buds that coming. God has given us a different direction with joy, occassionally there is discouragment, but He keeps leading us.

    • http://RobinGunn.com/ Robin Jones Gunn

      Hooray for signs of new life! Joy is such a wonderful gift.

  • Wanda Thompson

    I ,too, am waiting. Waiting to see what curves and bumps this road is taking me on. Knowing that God is driving. So I am at peace. I am, however, waiting to hear from doctors. I had Cancer. God healed me. It was truly a miracle when the doctors didn’t know what to say or do. But now it seems I again have cancer in my body. This time it seems to involve my liver and lung. Yes, I am waiting. But I feel safe and loved in my saviors arms. Knowing that he will heal me. Here or there….he will heal me. Please pray for my husband (who I adore) and our two wonderful sons. They are broken hearted. They are afraid, though their faith is strong. God is good. All the time.
    Thanks for inspiring me today and through the years and all your books.

    • http://RobinGunn.com/ Robin Jones Gunn

      I’m so glad you feel safe and loved in our Savior’s arms. That is the best place to be always and forever. Trusting God with you and waiting as He unfolds His mysterious ways.

  • Hannah C

    Thank you so much! That was exactly what I have been needing! I have been in waiting for several thing for several years and am learning that I am not very patient when it comes to the things my heart desires. I will be praying for your “waiting things” as I thank God for how he has used you to touch my life through the years!

    • http://RobinGunn.com/ Robin Jones Gunn

      And may the Lord bless you and grant you the desires of your heart, Hannah. (Psalm 37:4)

  • Andrea

    What a beautiful object lesson. Thank you for this. I’ve been praying and waiting for something I have been assured will happen but sometimes I feel not soon enough. Many years ago I asked God ‘will it happen’ and He assured me it would, a few year’s later I asked (in a fit of self-pity) ‘did you forget?’ and He assured me that He hadn’t. Then a few years later while witnessing a friend as she stepped into a life I so wanted – and was truely happy for her – I asked ‘when’ and God said ‘soon’….and a few years after that I asked Him again and He said ‘Just love me and let me take care of it’….an incredibly difficult thing for a control freak like me in a culture where nearly everything is available instantaneously.
    While I still wait I have realized in looking back that there were things (and still are things) that I needed to learn, missions I needed to accomplish that could best be done on my own, that God has always been faithful and that He fulfills what He promises. And so I wait – with hope and expectation – while I continue to do my best to faithful go where He leads.
    ps. I love your books.

    • http://RobinGunn.com/ Robin Jones Gunn

      That’s such a great response – “Just love me and let me take care of it”. When we do that, the waiting becomes peace filled and sacred.

  • http://www.facebook.com/melody.tregear Melody Rainer Tregear

    Wow! What an awesome word of encouragement. Thank you for sharing…

    • http://RobinGunn.com/ Robin Jones Gunn

      :-)

  • Tracy Ober

    Thank you Robin for your words and post. I know we are all in the waiting room at different times in our life. I am in that waiting room now with a bundle of things in my lap just waiting and getting bored at times, but trying to hold on to Jesus because He knows when the time will come. It was comforting to hear/read this post. So, Thank you!

    • http://RobinGunn.com/ Robin Jones Gunn

      Keep holding on to Jesus, Tracy. He hears. He sees. He knows. He has His hand on your life.

  • Doreen

    What a wonderful message! We are currently waiting to see if God will allow my husband to finish his dream of getting his PhD. Now after 1 1/2 years of leaving our adult children and other family and friends back in the states to come overseas to the UK to study, we are again waiting to see how God will provide. I finished working a temp job a month ago and haven’t gotten another one yet. Meanwhile, our funds are running low and we will have to decide soon if we are to leave here and return home without obtaining our dream. It is so hard to wait and like you said, I really want to take things into my own hands. I’m desperate to find work and really want to be able to do something to get a job. I know that the Lord has a plan for us, but it just seems like nothing is happening. Thank you for your wonderful words of encouragement! God has not forgotten us…we just need to wait.

    • http://RobinGunn.com/ Robin Jones Gunn

      Indeed. God has not forgotten you. When we see things falling apart God sees them as falling into place. May His peace be upon you today, Doreen.

  • Emily

    Thank you for that. I cannot tell you how much I relate to you at this point in my life. I’ve been waiting around 7 months to see a dream happen, now it seems as still as anything like ice over a lake. But even with an ice covered lake, the currents underneath can’t be seen until the right time. So even though I’m waiting to hear back, I’m so thankful for the time to focus on Jesus. I’m so thankful that “all things are working for my good..”. So thank you again for showing me that I’m not alone :-) God bless!!

    • http://RobinGunn.com/ Robin Jones Gunn

      God IS working all things together for His good. You are His little lamb. He is your Shepherd. Follow him closely, dear Emily.

  • http://www.facebook.com/jessica.c.errico Jessica Cherie Errico

    The rewards of a heart waiting on GOD: blooms of hope, joy, love, forgiveness, peace and patience. How I praise HIM for not ever giving up on me.
    While I once gave an orchid away (rather than wait on it to bloom again), JESUS patiently tends to my spirit and soul that I might be revived. Thanks for sharing these thoughts.

    • http://RobinGunn.com/ Robin Jones Gunn

      I did the same thing, Jessica. When we moved here I gave up on the orchid by my kitchen window and gave it to our “adopted” son and his wife. Well over a year later he sent me an email one day and said, “Look at this!” It was a picture of the orchid in his kitchen window now in blooming glory.

  • Connie

    Many blessings to you for sharing this wonderful revelation from the one who loves us unconditionally! I too have a dream that has been in my heart for years and sometimes I wonder if it will ever come to be, but your word has given me encouragement that I should not give up hope, to trust and wait on the Lord who makes the impossible possible! Your wonderful novels are so inspiring, keep writing for us Robin! So love your heart!

    • http://RobinGunn.com/ Robin Jones Gunn

      Don’t ever give up Hope. Trust and wait. The Lord is working steadily behind the scenes, Connie. It’s such a sweeter celebration when the answer comes and we’ve believed all along that it was on its way and all we had to do was wait.

  • MushyWear

    What an encouraging post today. Thank you!

    • http://RobinGunn.com/ Robin Jones Gunn

      :-)

  • Sabrina

    This was extremely helpful, thanks Robin!

    • http://RobinGunn.com/ Robin Jones Gunn

      Good! Glad to hear that, Sabrina.

  • Jill

    This is exactly what I needed today! I have been so stressed with my senior year high school and the decisions I have to be making. I Know I want to going into missions but how? Where do I go? I know now that if I wait, God will show me! Thank you for sharing!

  • Farrah

    Wow, Robin… boy did you ever speak my heart! Waiting… why is it so hard to do? My husband and I have been in the process to adopt our 2nd child for over 4 years now. We adopted our beautiful daughter almost nine years ago and desperately want a sibling for her. The process has been agonizing this time around. Roadblock after roadblock has come against us. Two years ago we were chosen by a birth-mom who changed her mind a few days later. Devastated, but determined, we dug our heels in and kept going. About a month ago we were chosen again. The baby was born a week ago, and just when we were about to travel down to get our baby, the birth-mom decided to parent. We are heartbroken and do not understand what God is doing. Now, we are back to square one – and back to waiting. Proverbs 13:12 seems to have come directly from my lips – “Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but a longing fulfilled is a tree of life.” I am simply and completely heartsick. During these years of waiting, I have asked God to take the dream to adopt another child away. But recently I realized that it is not just MY dream… it is God’s dream – FOR me. So, once again, I find myself with empty arms, trusting in my God to fill them – in HIS time. Waiting…. so incredibly hard. But, one bit of encouragement from my pastor – Delay is never denial.

    • http://www.facebook.com/kathy.thomsen.3 Kathy Thomsen

      “Delay is never denial.” Oh my gosh, thank you for saying that. Thank you so much. I really, REALLY needed to hear that. I’m copying that and putting it on my fridge. Thanks, Farrah.

  • Bonnie

    Thank you so much for these words of encouragement. Its hard being 26 and single and all your friends are getting married. Its so hard to wait sometimes but God is working even when we don’t so see it. Thank you so much :)

    • http://www.facebook.com/kathy.thomsen.3 Kathy Thomsen

      BONNIE!!! Me too! :) You’re not alone. I’m twenty-seven. I feel like I’m at a standstill in my life. I have hit none of those “milestones” on the road to “becoming at adult;” I haven’t truly fallen in love, I’m not married, I haven’t had kids, or bought a house, or even a dog! However, I do have a plant. :) His name is Prince Phillip. I received him for my high school graduation from an aunt, and one year he somehow ended up in my family’s basement and was forgotten about. A short while ago, I found him. He was dead. I was positive he was dead. But then I did some research (just like Robin!) and found that if a plant’s “space-creature” stems are still firm, it’s still alive. I didn’t want to believe it…it looked hopeless and futile…but I wanted to believe it!! I moved him up from the basement, watered him, put him in sunlight, and waited. It took a while. He is not the plant he used to be, with reaching leaves and stems all the way to the floor, but I am proud to say he is healthy, and green, and has some beautiful leaves. Some as big as my palm! Whenever I go to another friend’s wedding, or attend a cousin’s game night (which should be called “couples-with-the-exception-of-single-Kathy” game night), I think of Phil, and how believing and waiting changed him for the better. I know I babble, but I wanted to tell you that I relate and that you’re not alone! Have a good one. :)

  • Michelle

    Thank You, Robin. As usual your words are just what I needed. “WAIT” is what I am doing. Awaiting ankle surgery, on March 14th, that will make me better so I can “move on” to where I feel like I have a purpose even though I don’t yet know where that will be.

  • http://www.facebook.com/kristen.finger.9 Kristen Finger

    Thank you so much for writing this. It reflects so much of what God’s been speaking to me. I realized just tonight that I had a dream with which I refused to trust Him. It was like a weed that needed to be pulled so the flower in my heart could grow. Thanks for the encouragement while I wait for my heart’s rose to move on and trust Him.

  • Sue Wyszynski

    This is beautiful Robin. Oh how I miss you. God Bless you and all you beauty and for your waiting.

  • Emii

    I sure hope one of those dreams includes a Christy Miller movie… it’s one of mine, anyway. ;)

    • Elizabeth

      AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Please make a Christy Miller movie!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • http://www.facebook.com/dawn.hillshipman Dawn Hill Shipman

    I’ve been waiting for 18 years for my oldest son to come back to the Lord. Every time I see him or hear about him, it seems that he’s just that much further away and it seems completely impossible that his heart will ever change. Thank you for the encouragement to keep hoping and believing, even when we see no evidence that our prayers are heard.

  • http://www.facebook.com/jules602 Julie Hill

    My word for this year has been “hope.” Hope can be so difficult, for it means putting my hope in Jesus rather than hoping “for” something – acknowledging that when my desire is to delight in Him rather than the gifts He provides, I’ll find contentment in Him and at the right time see His promises come to pass. Remaining hopeful as I wait. ;-) Thank you for this beautiful word this morning!

  • Jessica K

    Thank you so much for sharing this! For the past week I’ve been asking God what to get for my friend’s birthday. You see, she doesn’t see her birthday as a celebration of her life, but as another year passing without the dreams of her heart coming to pass. I read this and immediately knew what to get her. I ran out to Lowe’s and got her an orchid and printed this post. You have been my favorite author since I was in my early teens and even to this day, everything you write has so much life and lessons from God for exactly where I’m at in life. Thank you for being faithful with the words God has given you!

  • http://twitter.com/nadiaianakieva nadia ianakieva

    Beautiful! Thank you for the encouragement, Robin.

  • Angela

    Thanks, Robin! I needed to read this! We are missionaries in Alaska and due to financial troubles with our organization, we will be out of work in June. We have been looking for a new job but doors have been closed all around us. God brought us to this place in our lives and he will not abandon us but sometimes we feel we need to take matters into into our own hands. Thank you for reminding us God knows our next step, even when we don’t!

  • Anna

    that’s what the Lord seems to keep telling me this past month. wait. I know your desires, better than you do. trust me, I am better at fulfilling them than you are.
    this week he keeps reminding me that life with him means choosing to trust when things aren’t sure, choosing to live fully while being in seeming insecurity. life with Christ is full of that trusting with an ambiguous future ahead. but I am at the same time secure in his love and plan. and in the times of waiting we are still free and have joy.
    this was a very poignant way for the lord to confirm what he has been saying to me lately. don’t get scheming. don’t try finagling the situation to make something happen. The Lord is better at giving us what we need, bringing more joy than ever expected, than we are at taking what we want, not necessarily gaining joy at all.
    thank you! this is what I needed to hear. just wait.

  • www.bekahhamrickmartin.com

    Wow, powerful post. I read once that the word “wait” in the Psalms often means “to be twisted together with”. So our waiting isn’t empty… it’s a process of being wrapped closer to Him. Let’s hang in there as we wait together…

  • Nancy

    I can relate to Candy. My dear hubby went to heaven 3 years ago this month. We had 45 1/2 happy years together. And your story touched my heart also. I have been waiting a long time for my wayward son to come back to the Lord. But I believe it will happen in God’s time so I keep waiting and praying

  • green thao

    Wow… thank you so much for writing this I really need this encouragement.theres a lot of things in life where im waiting… I will trust!

  • http://www.facebook.com/NancyLaficaLoren Nancy Loren

    A beautiful message and encouragement from a beautiful Women of God! Loved the story! Thanks for sharing it! XO

  • http://www.facebook.com/shekinah.benick Shekinah Marie Benick

    Beautiful. Thank you.

  • http://twitter.com/veritycreative Amy

    This is beautiful! David Platt once said “Contentment is deep trust in the Sovereignty of God.” May we glorify God in our waiting.

  • Grace

    I am so encouraged by reading this post. It is amazing to me how God can give encouragement when you don’t expect it! The past few months I have been struggling with depression after some difficult life changes, and I have felt very discouraged in the past few days especially. I’ve wondered if maybe I am not doing something right by not trying to change my circumstances, but reading your post confirms what I have thought: that God is asking me to wait. Right now, I feel flowerless like the orchid. I am praying that I can make it through this rough time and come out with six blooms beautiful blooms too! Thank you for the encouragement.

  • http://www.facebook.com/MandiKaye324 Mandi Raper

    What a timely message… God knew exactly what He was doing by making me wait to read this devotional thought. I have been struggling over the last couple of days with the topic of waiting, especially when it comes to how long I’ve been waiting for my Prince Charming to come along as I’m about to turn twenty-nine and realized my life is nothing like what I thought it would be by now. I know God is growing me while I wait. This is also such a relevant devotion I’ll be sharing with a friend who is in the waiting process to bring twins home from the Congo and I know she struggles with the wait but desires to stay in God’s will no matter the outcome. Thank you for sharing!

  • Grace

    Your timing is perfect!… I needed this reminder… ‘to patiently wait’…. <

  • Becca

    inhave a question will you ever write about todd and christy after there married.

  • lynn

    After a car wreck in Feb. that God spared me from I am waiting. Waiting to see when I can drive again. Waiting to see when I can read again. Waiting to see if and when I can work again. Yep, your story spoke to my waiting heart. Your flowers are so pretty. God is good.

  • Grace

    Hi Jen,,,
    I so enjoy your musings…and had to share this big grin on my face (today)… I too had purchased several Orchid plants when I lived in SO. Cal… and like yours… it bloomed & bloomed & bloomed the year I brought it home from the store… Then nothing…. well 6 years ago we moved up to Spokane WA…. and I dragged those 3 plants with me to Spokane…still nothing….. then this morning I was watering & misting all my violets and the 3 Orchids…when I noticed a ‘stick’ like branch off my Orchid… upon further inspection I realized it was a branch w/buds! Oh My Word!
    I am doing the Happy Dance… then I got to thinking about how much I had been grousing living up here (homesick)… and I just had to Apologize to the Lord and I had to Thank Him…. because like that darn Orchid plant.. I had quit blooming…. shame on me…. but now I am smiling again…. :>)